Talking to my Brother about his Role at Home
Naming the issue. Jack, I would like to talk to you about the role that you have to play at home.
Selecting a specific Example . I have noticed that you have not been taking part in family activities in the last one month. Besides, you have not even taken up your duty of cleaning the compound.
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Description of emotions about the issue: I am a bit concerned that you have been failing in your duties and have isolated yourself a lot in the recent past, which is something that you are not used to since you have always been a keen contributor to the affairs of the family. I am worried that this may disturb mom a lot, as she is concerned about your well-being
Clarify what is at stake: What is at stake here is your reputation as a member of the family and a strong contributor. The family may stop seeing you as a social person and may avoid interacting with you with the fear that you may not be ready to accept them ( Baldoni, 2003) .
Identifying my contribution. I have realized that I should have raised this issue at an earlier point when I noted that you were more distracted in the family.
Wish to resolve: What I wish is that you resolve this problem and share with me in case there is any problem. You are my brother, and we have a duty to keep the family happy and united at all times as our parents have always taught us that we should ensure that we remain united, support each other and deal with problems facing us as a unit and not as individuals.
Invitation to respond: I would like to hear your response to what I just said, and in case you have any issue to raise, please feel free to raise it.
Reference
Baldoni, J. (2003). Great communication secrets of great leaders . New York: McGraw-Hill.
